By: Vance Lau
This problem isn’t really addressed often, but finding the best places to pick up women is actually a pretty annoying problem.
I mean technically you could pick up women anywhere but where are some places where they are especially more open to conversation and approaches.
Without further ado…
The Best Places To Pick Up Women
Online
Ahh once upon a time men had to actually go out places to approach women who only may be interested in them.
Dating sites have changed all of that. And by the way…
Gone are the days when this was weird guys.
There used to be a weird stigma around meeting and dating women online; as if only shy losers would do it.
But that is no more. Dating sites are more mainstream than ever.
If you’re looking to increase your dating options (man that kind of sounds terrible), then go and sign up for one of these dating/social networking sites.
Just make sure you take the online relationship offline as quickly as possible for obvious reasons. You’re actually trying to date the girl right…?
The Club Scene Illusion
It may seem to be a great idea to go to clubs, bars and lounges to meet women but it’s really not all it’s cracked out to be.
Any woman that is at all attractive in such places is approached by around 20 men per 15 minutes and is “on guard”.
There are ways to set yourself up so that your approaches are successful but in general club scenes aren’t among the best places to pick up women.
In fact, I would start looking at what most men do and doing the opposite.
Start thinking about more “everyday” places like Starbucks, grocery stores, dog parks, amusement parks, and the list goes on.
In these places, women are not approached that often and are not really “on guard”.
The chance of them being open to your approach is much greater.
Just remember to set your approach up correctly. Try to approach them when you think you’ll at least have a few solid uninterrupted minutes to talk.
The X Factor For Finding The Best Places To Pick Up Women
While there are many great places to meet and pick up women the best thing you can do for yourself is to build a strong social circle.
If you hate cold approaching women and don’t really take rejection too well then you CANNOT overlook this. This is how you’re going to have the most beautiful women literally come to you. As in they’re nearly always in your life.
If you cultivate a strong and sexy social circle and you form a reputation of being one of the alpha leaders of the group, you’ll virtually never have to cold approach (unless you want to) again.
You’ll be able to get with the most beautiful women you have ever gotten easier than ever because any beautiful women that enters your circle will almost automatically be attracted to you because of your high status in the group.
(I can almost hear the “social proof” attraction trigger being flipped.)
I know that when I started cultivating a stronger social circle, the “game” became really easy and pain free. Beautiful women in my social circle never rejected my approach.
So bottom line is whether you meet women online or offline, make it a point to start cultivating a strong and sexy social circle simultaneously.