How To Pick Up Asian Women

To many non-Asian men, the skill set of how to pick up Asian women is often unknown to them. To be honest, it’s neither that difficult nor that different than picking up non-Asian women; after all, attraction switches are for the most part universal.

There are however just a few things to watch out for and to take note of in addition to your “normal” game.

4 Tips On How To Pick Up Asian Women

Put The Odds In Your Favor

First, leave the stereotypes alone. Next go to places where Asian women frequent.

If you want to pick up Asian women you need to go where they are. Why are you at that Latin bar??

Good places to go to include:

  • - Asian restaurants; more local Asian restaurants, not your local P.F. Chang’s.
  • - Asian dances or events like a Chinese New Year celebration held near where you live. Many Asian clubs and organizations host such events. There are many Asian holidays so finding an event shouldn’t be difficult at all.
  • - There are also amazing shows.
  • - Asian grocery stores are also a good place. Great conversation starters can easily begin with you acting (or probably not acting) like you don’t know what a certain food is.

Some things to keep in mind:

  • - Don’t feel out of place.
  • - Be at ease and respectful of the women and you will be warmly recepted.
  • - Just don’t stand around fidgeting and looking lost otherwise you will lose points.
  • - Be genuinely interested in the event that’s going on.
  • - Ask questions and appreciate. That’s how you will not come off as some random dude but rather as an interested, cultured man.

Important notes to be aware of:

1. Learn to tell the difference between Asian nationalities. I understand this is hard and but in general there is a difference.

If you can’t tell, don’t worry. Wait for her to tell you. DON’T ask her. This is a huge pet peeve for most Asian women.

2. You will definitely impress her if you know a thing or two about her culture, once she tells you what she is.

Just remember not to stereotype because more often than not you will come off as offensive.

Try Not To Go To Nightclubs As Your Main Place To Pick Up Asian Women

I’m not going to go too deeply into the why but bottom line is, nightclubs and bars have a different vibe and energy. For the most part, girls don’t act how they usually do (probably because they’re approached by 5 trillion guys every 5 seconds all night).

This said, nightclubs and bars are a decent place for back to back practice and one night stands but for the most part you’re probably not going to be building any “real” relationships at a bar. Chances are you are not going to be really getting to know each other there.

Try places where girls act normally and have their “pickup radar” turned off. Good places are bookstores, daytime events, and restaurants to name a few.

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Build Rapport First Before Approaching

I define rapport as connection, trust, comfort, and relationship.

You want to build some rapport before approaching. For example, say you’re in a bookstore next to a cute Asian girl that you want to approach.

After sitting there for a bit, say you have to go to the bathroom and ask her to save your seat. This communicates subtly that you “trust” her, which is a rapport builder.

To make this even stronger, proceed to make a joke like: I’m going to run to the restroom, if anyone touches my book, I need you to tackle them.

Obviously say thanks when you get back.

End The Conversation First

Be the first one to end the conversation. You can pretend you got a text or just say you got to go. But say, “I need to go, but yea…listen give me your number and we’ll talk again sometime.” (Hand them you phone smoothly as you’re saying this). Don’t be shy about it! Act like it’s no big deal.

This close is good because it shows you are not needy, you have other things to do, and since you interrupted the conversation, there’s still more things to talk about.

Note: This close should be done after (at the very least) rapport is built. If you have already created some initial attraction then this will work even better.

How To Attract Younger Women

If you want to know how to attract younger women you’re in good hands  because it’s really a lot easier than you think.

Here are a few simple, actionable and most importantly, effective steps for you to take.

1. You Need A Different Perspective…A Different Approach! 

You need to approach younger woman with a different mindset. You need to know how they think and what attracts them to a man.

For one thing, younger women for the most part don’t need/want as much certainty.

“Mystery” is your friend here. You don’t want to be totally upfront about who you are and what you feel about them (younger women) because it will bore their wits out. Stay mysterious about yourself.

Also watch how you display your interest in her. Remember to stay mysterious.

Keep her guessing so that you stay on her mind.

2. Don’t Think You’re At A Disadvantage

You’re not at a disadvantage being an older man!  Your maturity, experience of the world, and depth of knowledge is sexy and attractive.

The missing ingredient is a bit of edge, fun and excitement…a little “boyishness”.

Being manly, mature and worldly mixed with edginess, fun, and childlike spirit is a powerful and irresistible combination.

Take Clark Gable for example. For those of you who don’t know who he is, Clark Gable is an old Hollywood actor. The following quote this one woman said of him epitomizes how to attract younger women:

“He was as masculine as any man I’ve ever known, and as much a little boy as a grown man could be – it was this combination that had such a devastating effect on women.”

I remember this particular scene in a movie where Gable was with a women pulling on this rope, trying to pull something up I believe, when the rope snapped and they both fell back into the shallow river they were standing in.

Both of them started laughing; carefree, childlike fun. But then Gable turns to the woman and loses the boyish vibe and energy. Instead he gazes deep into her eyes while having this smooth smile (almost like a smirk) on his face.

The energy and vibe he started giving off can only be described as: masculine. For the record, he kisses her soon after.

Another note: 

Get current. Remember age is only in the mind. Now, don’t overdo it and become some teenager wannabe but do fun things.

Get in touch with your adventurous and youthful side. Rock climbing, mountain biking, sailing, concerts, shows, events, etc.

Be honest with yourself: Do you live an adventurous and fun life?

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3. Cultivate Social Proof And Value

One of the most powerful attraction switches inside a woman is the switch of social proof a.k.a. pre-selection.

Women are biologically hardwired to be attracted to men that other women seem to be displaying interest in. In fact, we all have an internal hardwiring that makes us see pre-selected individuals as high value.

This is why celebrities have the effect that they do. They’re pre-selected.

Tom Cruise walks into a club and everyone surrounds him. This gives him what is known as social proof. Even the people who don’t know about Tom Cruise, are asking themselves, “Who is that guy? Because he definitely has it going on…”

So how does this apply to you? Well social proof is an older man’s easiest attraction trigger to flip. You’re older and your network’s bigger.

When you go out to meet women, have a few attractive female friends with you. Younger women and all women for that matter who see you surrounded by attractive females (doesn’t matter if they’re just friends) will INSTANTLY label you as someone who is pre-selected and has high social value.

They will undoubtedly be attracted or at least curious. If you don’t believe this, watch the difference in reception when you approach a younger woman AFTER she has seen you surrounded by attractive women and BEFORE. It’s a night and day difference.

Action Steps

  1. 1. Review in your head what I said about having a different perspective
  2. 2. Remind yourself that being older is an advantage!
  3. 3. Get in touch with your youthfulness, become worldlier, get current on trends, and do fun things.
  4. 4. Watch Clark Gables (Role model him)
  5. 5. Find a few friends (preferably attractive women) and get out there! ;]

Remember this quote when you’re thinking about how to attract younger women:

“He was as masculine as any man I’ve ever known, and as much a little boy as a grown man could be – it was this combination that had such a devastating effect on women.”