By: Vance Lau
David DeAngelo is a well-known dating expert.
He’s a great man and has contributed much to the pick up community.
He once wrote a short how to for knowing when to be kissed.
So without further ado…
The David DeAngelo kiss test*
*I’ve added some additional points below with my thoughts.
“I used to have no idea if a woman was ready to be kissed.
I could be sitting there talking to her, thinking to myself “Wow, her lips really look nice…” but I didn’t know what to do next. This would often leave me kissless, and many times kissless for good, as I didn’t get another chance.
Here’s what I do now:
If I’ve been talking to a girl, and I want to know if she’s ready to be kissed, I’ll reach over and touch her hair while we’re talking and make a comment about it. I’ll say “Your hair looks so soft” and just touch the tips of it.
If she smiles and likes this, I’ll reach back over and start stroking it again, but this time I also glance down at her lips and back up to her eyes a couple of times. If she lets me keep touching her hair, I know that she’s ready to be kissed.
By using “The Kiss Test” I’ve been kind and complimentary, but by being very SUBTLE about it, I haven’t given her anything she can object to. I now have a way of knowing if she’s ready to be kissed that NEVER gets me rejected—and I know within 5 minutes what it used to take me hours or days to figure out…”
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The David DeAngelo kiss test was one of the first kiss tests I have ever tried. It’s a good one. I think the key here is the increasing of sexual tension that is created when you touch her hair and glance at her lips and eyes. That’s really the essence of the David DeAngelo kiss test. In fact…
The key to any good kiss test is really the increasing of sexual tension. You want to introduce sexual tension and see whether she is comfortable or uncomfortable with it. I wrote another article Kiss Tests that shows you how to create this sexual tension without the need for words.
It’s what I believe to be the ultimate kiss test because it’s virtually fail proof. You probably want to read it ;] Check it out- Kiss Tests