By: Vance Lau
PUA negs or pick up artist negs are light insults wrapped in a compliment given to an exceptionally beautiful woman in the hopes of “setting you apart” from most men who just compliment her/kiss her ass. Whew, that’s a mouthful.
In short a pua neg should accomplish the following:
1. Set you apart from most men who kiss her ass and put her on a pedestal
2. Lower’s the woman’s defenses
3. Deflate a beautiful woman’s “big” head (ego)
4. Compel her to try and win you over.
It’s primarily an attraction technique. When used correctly a pua neg is really powerful but if used incorrectly the woman will just think you’re not socially savvy + that you’re an asshole.
Let’s go over some guidelines to pua negs.
1. A pua neg is NOT an insult.
2. A pua neg should not be harsh.
Pua negs should be a genuine remark (it can be funny or not) that points out an imperfection about a woman. Try not to have it canned. No woman is perfect so you don’t really have to have negs memorized.
Just throw a straightforward remark as you would to a loved one. Something like whispering to her “you have an eye crusty”.
Negs should be thrown out before quickly moving on. Do NOT throw a neg and wait for a response because she will feel compelled to defend herself especially if she is around her friends. Throw it and move on with the conversation.
Some negs should just be between you and her. A neg like “you have an eye crusty” should NOT be used in a group setting. She’ll resent you for it.
Other types can be used in a group setting, like the classic:
“Did you know your nose wiggles when you talk? It’s so cute” and then get all her friends to notice before moving on quickly with the conversation.
Also remember to only use negs on girls who are a 9 or 10 in terms of beauty or think they are a 9 or 10. Remember the point of negs.
Girls who are an 8 and below (or think they are an 8 and below) are more insecure; they will probably be hurt by negs and as a result they’ll probably dislike you for it.
It’s better to be safe than sorry with negs. They are NOT required to create attraction. They’re really just used to deflate a beautiful woman’s big head so she stops thinking she’s all that.
Below is a classic list of good pua negs to use. But remember what I said about being genuine.
If a woman doesn’t have an eye crusty and you say she does simply for the sake of negging you will look like a fool…busted.
1. Do you know your nose wiggles when you talk?
2. Eww you spit on me! (Brush off your face). This actually might be a little too harsh.
A better version of this neg would be to just brush your face off. You don’t have to say “you spit on me”, you can just flinch and brush off the “spit” that she spit on you.
She’ll catch on.
3. Take her hands and look at her nails. “I like your nails…are they real?”
4. “You have an interesting sense of humor.”
5. I like brunettes (she’s a blonde) or I like Asian girls (she’s a Latina) or I like tall women (she’s short)…you get the picture.
I hope this article helped!